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This is a special place designed for women who seek the companionship of younger men and for men attracted to older women—finding them, approaching them and courting them. If you’re looking for an intimate and provocative dissection of this trend, you will find it here. You can share your honest stories via E-mail, or offer comments to my blog: “Hot and Trendy,” which is ever changing and offers up to date information not only on this topic but other hot and trendy topics.  Just click on the icon “Blog.”

Everyone knows how awkward it is for men having to make the first move especially with an older woman, and it’s just as thorny for a woman to know how to respond.  Men have always had to deal with the stigma of rejection when they approach a woman of any age, and it is particularly risky with a sophisticated older woman.  Imagine if he’s tried it once or twice and been politely reminded that he’s young enough to be her son.  He won’t be pursuing that situation too soon again unless he gets a signal. 

The trend started in Hollywood with so many drop-dead gorgeous older women who have openly loved a wide array of vibrant, adventurous young men, spicier than hot curry.  Demi Moore, Madonna, Bo Derek, Sharon Stone, Susan Sarandon, Jacqueline Bisset, Julianne Moore, Tina Turner, Mary Tyler Moore, Halle Berry, Gwyneth Paltrow, and countless others.

If you’re tired of going out with men your age who will take you to a fabulous restaurant, order a fine bottle of wine, talk about how successful they are, then head home only to plop themselves in front of your TV and nod off to snoring heaven while you sit there in glum silence, you owe it to yourself to change the dynamic—to find men who have an energy level that matches yours.  Yes, younger men.     

All around us are old codgers marrying women younger than their daughters only to leave them widows after short term marriages—if the marriages last that long.  The failure of these relationships is the end result of a biological fact—women outlive men by a significant number of years.  So a reverse age gap is the rational alternative. 

As the years go by, we begin to think the best we can hope for is a man who is still breathing even if he can’t see his feet beneath his belly.  If that’s where you’re at, take stock of yourself.  You still look good.  You work out.  You eat healthy, feel healthy, and have the same stamina as you did when you were younger.  Too many women have needs that are not being fulfilled.  You’re entitled.  You have the gift of life.  Don’t waste it. Take advantage of the trend.  It makes good sense.

Over and over, I hear men say, “I feel good with an older woman.  They know what they want, and they don’t play games.”

There’s no harm in a woman wanting the romance she once enjoyed.   Seeking an imaginative, romantic lover who knows how to bring pleasure not only to himself, but to the woman in his life is a worthy goal, and absolutely achievable.  The number of men looking for older women is growing exponentially. They like her confidence, her experience, her style, and her intelligence. 

Don’t for one minute believe this option is reserved only for the rich, famous or beautiful.  A young man is out there for every vibrant woman if only she would open her eyes and her mind.  This is not a matter of robbing the cradle or trolling the high school athletic fields for young jocks.  We’re talking about younger adult men.

Women, be receptive to the idea that these men will find you exciting, attractive and sexy given the opportunity to see you and know you.    

Breaking down barriers and navigating this new terrain doesn’t have to be as difficult as it seems.  

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